Backyard Bliss: How to Throw the Ultimate Wedding in Your Own Backyard

Are you considering hosting a micro-wedding in your -or someone else’s- backyard? You have my full support! Every backyard wedding I’ve attended has a special place in my heart. The coziness, the whimsy, I’m here for it ALL. Here are some tips to make sure your backyard bash is the stuff of wedding legends.

First things first, assess the potential: Look for flat areas for seating, dancing, and dining. Keep an eye out for sprinkler heads, and any pesky gopher holes or ant colonies unless you want some uninvited guests.

Weatherproofing: Colorado has a mind of her own, so be prepared. Can you move the party indoors easily? If not, plan to rent a tent or canopy to shield your guests from rain or shine. It's like insurance for your day. A stockpile of umbrellas is always a good idea too!

Light It Up: String up some lights to keep the party vibe alive. Pro tip: LED lights are energy-efficient and won't turn your electric bill into a horror story. Amp up the romance with fairy lights, lanterns, or even chandeliers hanging from trees or your tent.

Seating Strategy: No one likes to stand around awkwardly at a wedding. Make sure you've got enough seating for everyone. Get creative with benches, hay bales, or even picnic blankets for a laid-back vibe. Bonus points if you have comfy cushions, blankets, and a fire pit!

Bathroom Plan: Do you have enough bathrooms to accommodate your guests? If not, look into renting porta-potties so you don’t leave your guests running to the bushes.

Sound Check: Get yourself a good sound system or hire a DJ to keep the music going. A killer playlist is essential for any wedding, just make sure your neighbors are cool with a little late-night noise.

Food Fun: Food trucks, BBQ buffet, or DIY taco bar—take your pick! Just make sure there’s enough to go around.

Leave No Trace:  Have a designated cleaning crew for the end of the night. Your neighbors will appreciate not finding stray champagne corks in their flower beds the next morning.

Keep it simple, keep it real, and your backyard wedding will be a blast without all the cheesy clichés. Cheers to keeping it cool and kicking off your happily ever after! 🍻

Elope and Tell: Reasons to Elope and How to Tell Your Family

Planning a wedding can be a thrilling yet overwhelming experience, and as the pressure mounts, some couples find themselves yearning for a simpler, more intimate celebration. If you've decided to trade in the big white wedding for a romantic and intimate elopement, congrats! Now, the tricky part: breaking the news to your fam without causing a feud. Does this make you nervous? I totally understand. In this blog post, I'll guide you through the art of breaking the news to your family. But first, we’re going to talk about the pros of eloping, so if you’re still on the fence, keep reading!

Your Budgeting BFF

Let's face it – weddings can be expensive. From the venue and catering to the dress and decorations, the costs can quickly add up. Eloping allows you to prioritize what you two really want from the day — time devoted to only each other while you share a special experience or go on a new adventure, and of course, getting great photos to remember it by. In the end, you’ll be able to allocate more funds toward building your life together, which is a practical win from eloping.

Stress Reduction

The stress of planning a large wedding can put a strain on any couple. By eloping, you're eliminating the need to juggle seating charts, accommodate everyone's dietary preferences, and navigate family dynamics. A stress-free start to your marriage? Hell yes.

Intimate Vibes & Freedom

Big weddings can be like throwing a party for 30 of your closest friends... and 170 other people you barely know. Eloping is all about keeping it real and focusing on the love between you two. It's like a secret club for just the two of you – way more exclusive. But you know what? You CAN decide to elope with others along – the choice is completely up to you! Maybe you want your parents or 5 of your best friends along. You have the total freedom to choose how exclusive your day is.

How to Share the News

Tell the Love Story

Share the unique story of your relationship that led you to this decision. Highlight the special moments that brought you and your partner closer, emphasizing that your choice to elope is a reflection of your love, not a rejection of your family and friends.

DIY Announcements

Forget the generic group text. Craft something personal for your folks – maybe a cute card with photos from your elopement or a quirky video. Show them you put some thought into it, and it's not just a spur-of-the-moment thing. It’ll also show that you value the relationship you have with your friends and family.

Include Them in the Celebration

Even if you're eloping, find creative ways to involve the loved ones who aren’t attending. You can invite them to a post-elopement bash or share a live-streamed ceremony so they can witness your special moment virtually. They'll appreciate the effort, and you'll still get to celebrate with your nearest and dearest while maintaining the privacy of your elopement.

Do Your Thing

Breaking the news about eloping can be a delicate process, but with logic and a personal touch, you can thoughtfully explain the reasons behind your decision. Remember, your wedding is YOUR thing. Whether it's a grand spectacle or an intimate elopement, it's about the two of you. So, go ahead and share the news with confidence. Here's to a wedding day that's as kickass as you two! Cheers! 🥂

Where to Plan the Italian Villa-Inspired Wedding of Your Dreams in Parker, Colorado

If you're on the hunt for the perfect wedding venue that effortlessly blends classic Italian elegance right in the Denver area, look no further than Villa Parker..

The Italian Connection

Picture this: cobblestone pathways, lush gardens, and warm terracotta walls. The architecture is a fusion of old-world charm and modern luxury, with romantic archways and terraces inspired by the Mediterranean. It's like stumbling upon a secret Italian villa, but with the convenience of being just a short drive from Denver.

Bellissima Spaces

One of the standout features of Villa Parker is its versatile spaces that cater to every wedding style and size. The bridal suite is amazing– a spacious multi-room haven where you can prep with your best friends while others enjoy playing pool just down the hall. Then, imagine exchanging vows outdoors, surrounded by the rich textures of stone, trees, and sky. The courtyard is a dream come true. Think blooming flowers, cobblestone, trees, and a large, gorgeous fountain. It's the perfect spot for a cozy ceremony or cocktail hour, and the outdoor patio provides a romantic setting for your reception. When evening comes, the ballroom located just through the patio doors is ready for you and your guests to dance the night away.

Mile-High Convenience and the Colorado Advantage

The proximity to Denver also means that you and your guests can easily explore all the city has to offer, from its craft breweries to its world-class dining scene. It's the best of both worlds – it feels like a small-town escape with the opportunity for urban adventures. This accessibility makes it a practical choice if you’re looking for the perfect blend of urban convenience and rural charm.

Beyond the Italian-inspired design and convenient location in Parker, Villa Parker takes full advantage of its Colorado surroundings. The venue offers views of both the Rocky Mountains in the distance and the bright lights of the city.

So, there you have it – Villa Parker combines timeless romance and the rugged beauty of Colorado, creating a wedding experience that's as unique as your love story.

Bonuses: Villa Parker also provides day of coordination by Grace & Co. Wedding with each booking and offers weekday and military discounts!

Vendors

photographer: Rise Images

venue: Villa Parker

florals: Compass Rose Floral

second shooter: Alyssa Miranda

Elegant Downtown Micro Wedding

If I’m being honest, I teared up while putting this blog together. Kassy and Nick, like a lot of couples, had their original wedding plans derailed by Covid. They were planning a larger wedding at the Brown Palace in Denver, but ended up back in North Dakota with a small group of family and friends. Even if it wasn’t what they initially imagined, it could not have been more perfect. It was intimate, elegant, emotional, and Harry Potter themed (which I particularly enjoyed!) The small ceremony took place on UND’s campus, in their hometown of Grand Forks, ND. The fall colors were amazing and it was such a gorgeous day! We spent the evening downtown with Nick’s dad’s classic car exploring the streets before joining everyone at the reception at Sky’s Fine Dining. It was one of the most romantic evenings, and I won’t be forgetting it anytime soon.

Congrats again Mr. & Mrs. Sattler!

Dreamy Fall Colorado Wedding at the Lodge at Breckenridge

I feel like every wedding ends up being my favorite, which I guess is a good problem to have. This one is definitely included on my long list of favorites! Jake and Colleen are such a chill couple, and they made the most of every minute of their day. Their perfect fall wedding took place in Breckenridge, Colorado just as the leaves were peaking. If that’s not a photographer’s dream, I don’t know what is. Their entire wedding is so memorable to me. I can still picture watching Jake’s face change as he saw Colleen for the first time walking down the aisle during their traditional Catholic ceremony. Shortly after, Jake, Colleen and I wandered through the mountains above town, taking our time with photos and soaking in the view. Their meal at the Lodge is one I still talk about (hello elk medallions!) and their all-night dance party was one for the books. I won’t be forgetting this lovely, high-energy wedding day anytime soon!

Congrats again Mr. & Mrs. Lutovsky!

Vendors:

hmu: HD Hair and Makeup

venue: The Lodge at Breckenridge

Intimate Estes Park Picnic-Style Micro Wedding

Kendall and Misty got married at YMCA of the Rockies in Estes Park, Colorado, and I’ve never seen such a gorgeous view for a ceremony! They celebrated with an intimate group of close family and friends. After their heartfelt ceremony, their camping themed reception took place at a picnic shelter nearby. They were able to tie in their love of the outdoors and lighthearted personalities perfectly. Simplicity was key for these two! Kendall and Misty kept things laid-back and focused on their love for each other, which is what it’s all about after all!

Congrats again Mr. & Mrs. Compton!

Vendors:

venue: YMCA of the Rockies

How to Plan a Surprise Proposal {Colorado Elopement & Wedding Photographer}

It’s that time that diamond rings are making their appearance! The holidays can be pretty romantic and they ensure that there are lots of family members around to celebrate, so it’s no wonder that most couples are getting engaged this time of year. Here are some tips for you if you’re planning on getting down on one knee in the next few weeks.

1) Hide that ring somewhere safe! It can be hard to hide gifts for partners, especially if you’re living with them. It can be a good idea to stash the ring at a family member or friend’s house until you’re ready for it.

2) Decide when and where it will take place. Are you going to propose in a sentimental place you’ve been many times, or somewhere spectacular and new? Will you have a crowd of people to work around or will you be somewhere private? Do you want either of your families involved? These are all good things to consider. Also, if you two have been dreaming of a summer wedding, it’s a good idea to propose early enough so you have enough time to book your dream vendors!

3) Figure out if you need co-conspirators or not. It can be helpful to have people who know your proposal plan so they can help execute it. For example, this can be a friend who helps you get your partner to the location you’re proposing, or it can be a photographer who is going to capture the event and help you plan the logistics! Funnily enough, when my husband proposed to me, I unknowingly tried to derail things by not wanting to go out at the particular time and basically asking too many questions! I straight up didn’t want to make the long drive since it was getting late. (Turns out Mitch was running late due to buying flowers and a cute little picnic spread. Whoops haha.) If my sister and friend weren’t involved, who knows how it would have happened!

4) What about the photographer? Do you plan on hiring one to capture the moment? If so, will they be hiding behind the scenes, waiting for it to happen? Do you want to disguise your proposal as a regular couples session in order to make sure your partner is dressed and ready for a photo session right after? This is an important decision to make, since a lot of the planning weighs on this part. I’m obviously partial to the idea of having a photographer on hand to capture this moment, but everyone’s situation is different. Just know that whatever you decide, the fact that you’re trying to make it special, automatically MAKES it special. Best of luck with your proposal planning!

(PS: If you’re looking for a photographer, come talk to me!)

Take a look through this heartfelt, romantic proposal of Mineidy & Dion’s for some inspiration!

Mineidy and Dion met around 6 years ago through a friend, but due to some shyness, they didn't really connect until they hung out at a party a few years later. These two positively glow around each other, and they have the sweetest love. If you don't believe me, ask the florist in Parker who knows Dion on a first name basis. Their proposal is one for the books as well. Dion planned it on their anniversary, in a gazebo decorated with twinkle lights and rose petals in Castlewood Canyon. Their families were hiding and watching from afar.

Dion's words: "We sat down and I played her a song I wrote inspired by her and all of her beauty. The song at the end asked her to marry me, and she wanted to answer as soon as it was over! Then I got on one knee, heart racing with the slight breeze hitting both of us, took out the ring which I was holding onto dear life for because I didn't want it to fall, then asked, 'Mineidy, will you marry me?' She said yes, and we had one of the best days of our lives, with much more to come. Mineidy, I love you. This is the beginning of forever."

See more of Dion & Mineidy’s love story on Rocky Mountain Bride!

Vendors:

Dress: Lulu's, @lulus

Shoes: Qupid, @qupidshoes

Suit: Express, @express

Ring: Neil Lane, @neillane

Flowers: Mainstreet Flower Market, @mainstreetflowermarket

Shirt: Zara Blouse: Lulu's, @lulus

Hat: Vici Dolls, @vicidolls

Slingbacks: CCOCCI, @ccoccifootwear

Want some help? Contact me to capture your perfect proposal!

Romantic Celebration at 52 Pines in Burlington, North Dakota

Katie and Jared’s celebration was a welcome distraction and a joyful event to be part of in June 2020. They got married at The Barn at 52 Pines in Burlington, ND. This is a gorgeous, rustic venue tucked just outside of town that can easily be dressed up or dressed down. We had stormy skies, but the sun came out just in time for their outdoor ceremony. In true North Dakota fashion, we had 50mph winds, but these two embraced the weather and we made some really gorgeous images together. I was so honored to work with this tight-knit, fun-loving group. Congrats again Mr. & Mrs. Daniels!

Winter Wonderland Elopement at Sapphire Point

This gorgeous elopement took place in January 2020, just before the world ended. It was my first wedding of 2020, and the last one for a while. Zach and Caitlin planned their winter elopement with simplicity and close friends in mind. We met up at Sapphire Point near Dillon, Colorado in the morning in order to do their first look out on the trail. It was a cold and snowing lightly when Zach and I headed out. I couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful morning for their first look, even though it was very chilly. We even got some sunshine with the snow flurries! Caitlin planned ahead for the weather with a cute fur wrap, layers under her dress and hiking boots, of course! I loved every second of their little elopement. It was so peaceful and perfect. We took our time hiking around after their first look until it was time to meet up with their friends for the ceremony. The overlook where they said their vows is to die for, and I recommend checking it out if you’re in the area. It’s a nice spot to take visitors since it’s easy to access, and the overlook is just a brief walk for those who aren’t used to hiking. After vows, we all celebrated with ice-cold Coors and more photos. I think the first year of marriage for this extremely sweet couple was memorable for many reasons! Congrats again Mr. & Mrs. Allen!

Billie+Wyatt {Belle Fourche, SD} Colorado Elopement & Wedding Photographer

Re-living Billie+Wyatt’s wedding is so fun! These two compliment each other so well and are just awesome to be around. They got married on September 1st, 2019 (yeah I know I need to blog faster) at Besler’s Cadillac Ranch in Belle Fourche, South Dakota. This venue is so rustic and charming! Billie completely nailed the indoor decor, too. Wyatt’s a farmer and Billie is a rodeo queen when she’s not teaching, so it was a pretty perfect theme. They had everything a western-chic wedding needs: horses (check) cowboy hats (check) cowboy boots (check) and two dresses (double check). The outdoor ceremony space was accented by an arch decorated with flowers by Billie’s mom and a hand-made cross from Wyatt. The ceremony was sweet with a few laughs, and the reception was full party-mode and featured Billie’s outfit change. I just LOOOOVED Bill’s bridal style. I had such a good time with everyone! Bill’s sister is my sister-in-law and we spent a lot of time together at their parent’s farm, so this wedding was extra special to me. Congrats again Billie+Wyatt! I hope to see you guys again soon.